How to tell a woman your also dating other people
A lot of guys feel guilty when they go out in the dating scene because they don't know what to tell a woman when they're dating more than one. What they don't know is, most women who are "just dating" actually expect that--and welcome it--because they're sick and tired of guys who think they're "the one" after one or two meetings.
Still, though, it is a good question--how should you deal with it when a woman your dating asks you? Here's the email that sparked it, and my answer below.
"John,
I do all right with women and the dating scene, but could always do better. What I am saying is that I am no where near desperate like many who contact you.
My question has to do with how to handle success. What do you tell women about other women if you date more than one? I don't wish to be a boor and brag about other women. And I am not whether dropping hints about other women will be a turn-off or turn on.
Will women think "he has plenty of women - he must be hot" or "he is a real "player" I had better be careful?"
How to tell her you are dating other people
But I invariably get asked by women "how was your weekend?" I always wonder if I should say "I had dates with someone else besides you on Friday and Saturday" or something vague like "OK - but nothing big." I do not want to lie and it is possible a woman will find out about the other dates anyway and think I am being dishonest.
Another John
JA: Thanks for the email, John. Actually, you'd be surprised by the lack of desperation by most guys on my list. Most are already on the path to success, and just want to discover how to become more so.
Women intuitively know when you're a guy who's good with women, and for the most part, assume you're available to others, up until the point you and her decided to see only each other. There's no reason to brag or boast about what you do, or even mention it. If you do so as an effort to make her jealous, it will back fire because you're relying on external circumstances to create attraction, not internally generated behavior. But you shouldn't hide it either.
If you're asked, be truthful--but in a fun, naughty manner--"yep, I had a few naughty girls compete for my attention this weekend--they did OK. Room for improvement, though." Then just smile and move on. If you're a guy who's good with women, you're just describing your reality, much as other guys would describe going to a movie.
It's just no big deal to you. Don't boast about it, don't hide it, just treat it as a normal circumstance, which it should be. The truth is, she's probably seeing other guys too. When it's time to date, it's time to date, and when it's time to commit, it's time to commit. It's not a good idea to hide anything in either circumstance.
John Alanis is the creator of the http://WomenApproachYou.com attaction system, and you can get info about his system at: http://www.manold.com.Golds Gym Fitness
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Still, though, it is a good question--how should you deal with it when a woman your dating asks you? Here's the email that sparked it, and my answer below.
"John,
I do all right with women and the dating scene, but could always do better. What I am saying is that I am no where near desperate like many who contact you.
My question has to do with how to handle success. What do you tell women about other women if you date more than one? I don't wish to be a boor and brag about other women. And I am not whether dropping hints about other women will be a turn-off or turn on.
Will women think "he has plenty of women - he must be hot" or "he is a real "player" I had better be careful?"
How to tell her you are dating other people
But I invariably get asked by women "how was your weekend?" I always wonder if I should say "I had dates with someone else besides you on Friday and Saturday" or something vague like "OK - but nothing big." I do not want to lie and it is possible a woman will find out about the other dates anyway and think I am being dishonest.
Another John
JA: Thanks for the email, John. Actually, you'd be surprised by the lack of desperation by most guys on my list. Most are already on the path to success, and just want to discover how to become more so.
Women intuitively know when you're a guy who's good with women, and for the most part, assume you're available to others, up until the point you and her decided to see only each other. There's no reason to brag or boast about what you do, or even mention it. If you do so as an effort to make her jealous, it will back fire because you're relying on external circumstances to create attraction, not internally generated behavior. But you shouldn't hide it either.
If you're asked, be truthful--but in a fun, naughty manner--"yep, I had a few naughty girls compete for my attention this weekend--they did OK. Room for improvement, though." Then just smile and move on. If you're a guy who's good with women, you're just describing your reality, much as other guys would describe going to a movie.
It's just no big deal to you. Don't boast about it, don't hide it, just treat it as a normal circumstance, which it should be. The truth is, she's probably seeing other guys too. When it's time to date, it's time to date, and when it's time to commit, it's time to commit. It's not a good idea to hide anything in either circumstance.
John Alanis is the creator of the http://WomenApproachYou.com attaction system, and you can get info about his system at: http://www.manold.com.Golds Gym Fitness
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1 2 Carat Diamond Earring Stud
30th Birthday Gift Unique
Television Quotes
Business Hair Problem Salon
Flower Clay Pot Crafts
0 Lux Camera
Baseball Nl Score
15 Beauty Billion Cosmetic Inside Junkies Obsession Our Surgery
Calendula Plus Cream
0a Home Make Money Work
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Cook Cooking Dont Have Healthy Jeanne Jones People Time Who
Container Gardening Patio
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Womens Dress Shoes Size 11
10 Fast Food Restaurant Top
Cheap Planning Wedding
By By By Cart Ceiling Google Goooooogle Lamp Links Search Site View Yahoo
Marketing
Cheap Flight Florida Last Minute
Sports Uzbekistan Winter
Contractor Home Improvement List Local
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02 Pay As You Go
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Business Card Download Free Ware
Chip Chocolate Cookie Diabetic Recipe
Main Coon Cats
Florida Nursing Home Neglect Attorney
Assistenza Condizionatori
Ipod Dvd Software
Nuclear Stress Test
007 Arcade Games
Entertainment Store Tonight Video
Celebrity Foot Toe
0 0 Apr Balance Card Credit Transfer
House Plan For Beach House
02 Magazine
Hampton Inn Williamsburg Va
Chef Table Franklin Lake
Bar Candy Chocolate White
Costume
Dog Psychics
10 Cologne Most Perfume Popular Top
Art Bean Clip Coffee
Lidias Restaurant Pittsburgh
Syracuse New York Obituary
P900 Movies
Basketball Michigan Schedule
Company Cosmetic Mac
Roxy Snow Boards
American Card Express Gift Purchase Where
Depression Pregnancy Teen
007 James Bond Gift Set
Face Muscles
Decor Home Online Shopping
Sea Ray 1990
Tomas Myspace Editor
First Baseball Stadium
Nfl Infant Clothes
Employee Rights Illinois
Airfix Model Kits
Bird Constellation Phoenix
Va Assumable Loan
Cheap Flight To San Jose
High Home Online School School
Class Coding Medical Online
04 Airline Deal Travel
Lowest Mortgage Rate Wisconsin
Clairs Accessories
1 1 2 Story House Plan
Oscoda Condominiums
Christmas Idea Invite Party
New River Valley Mall
Bag Bed Blue In Set
Jefferson Nickels
Dark Chocolate Cookie
Hiking Sequoia National Park
Wholesale Ab
Chinese Fashion Magazine
Cycling Ireland Lonely Planet
Pets Inc
Bank Canada National Offshore Philippine
Bird Carolina South State
Home
Football
Find Local Restaurant
1 Application Cosmetic Cosmetic Dermatology Dermatology Dvd In In Laser Light Medical Pigmentation Procedure Procedure Scar Series Textbook Vascular Volume
Furniture
All You Can Eat Seafood
Gas
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